Saturday, 5 October 2019

Teenagers need to know where love stops and abusive relationships start

an article by Holly Bourne for the Guardian

Many young women have been in an abusive relationship without even realising. A new website aims to teach them about coercive control

‘Repeated stalking’: Edward and Bella in Twilight.
Repeated stalking’: Edward and Bella in Twilight. Photograph: Allstar/Summit Entertainment/Sportsphoto Ltd/Allstar

Why are we always pointing to Instagram as the cause of mental illness in our teenagers? It’s frustrating that abusive relationships, and the trauma they cause, are rarely mentioned in discussions about the prevalence of mental health problems in young people. Research by Women’s Aid and Cosmopolitan has found that a third of teenage girls have been in an abusive relationship. And, if that isn’t shocking enough, when the remaining two-thirds were asked further questions, it emerged that 64% of them had, in fact, experienced abusive behaviour – they just didn’t realise it was abuse.

Continue reading


No comments: