Friday, 18 October 2019

How to Better Understand Your Emotions When You've Been Numb Too Long

a post by Patrick Williams for YourTango.com [via World of Psychology blog]



Your emotions are a part of you, and they shouldn’t be ignored.

So much is written about emotions — how to understand them, how to control them, or how they can help or hinder you. Just look at the self-help section of a bookstore or the cover of the multitude of grab mags at the checkout counter of your frequented food store. All can be helpful, but they are not always the truth, and are not personalized for you.

So, what are emotions, really, and why do we have them in the first place? Emotions can best be viewed as essential reactions to being human and a clue of what you experience from the inside out. Emotions are really energy in motion.

If you ignore or suppress a challenging emotion like sadness or anger or guilt (and all the associated reactions), you actually feed the dragon. It is crucial to recognize a feeling, take a moment to assess where it came from, and in a safe place, really notice and feel those feelings.

6 Things We Do Instead of Expressing Our Real Emotions (and How It Affects Our Health)

Continue reading and maybe find out what it is that you are hiding from (or trying to). Good luck.


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