Tuesday 31 March 2020

Don’t Fight with Loved Ones Just Because You’re Upset

a post by Hilary Jacobs Hendel for the World of Psychology blog



Now, more than ever, people need tools to handle their emotions. Specifically, we need tools for calming our nervous system down and making sure we don’t take stress out on our own loved ones. Families are going to fight more when they’re cooped up. The best thing we can do for our relationships is become aware of our emotions and learn skills to calm them so we don’t behave too badly.

“Every couple I know said they fought after going to the grocery store last week. Even one that went separately. That’s when I picked a fight with my boyfriend. And it makes sense because the grocery store scene right now is really scary and people don’t realize they’re feeling fear, they push it all to anger,” Jessica Hendel, an LA-based screenwriter, told me. “People are in there fighting each other over toilet paper!”

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relationships, fear, shopping, isolation,


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