Showing posts with label making_choices. Show all posts
Showing posts with label making_choices. Show all posts

Saturday, 23 November 2019

Five Ways to Avoid Growth

a post by Marie Hartwell-Walker for the World of Psychology blog



The opening sentence in M. Scott Peck’s book, The Road Less Traveled, is this: “Life is difficult.” It’s a line that is famous for its honesty and brevity. Life is, in fact, difficult if one is paying attention. That doesn’t mean that it is joyless or that it is too hard. The statement is simply a recognition that to become our best selves it is necessary to accept that the journey isn’t always smooth. Indeed, it shouldn’t be. Growth comes from facing obstacles and solving problems.

It’s only human to back away from what is difficult or painful. But doing so can result in a kind of spinning of our psychological wheels. Getting out of the muck means recognising the muck we’ve sunk into and finding a new way out so we can grow.

So you can avoid growth by not doing the things that Marie advocates!

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Tuesday, 23 July 2019

How to Make Time for the Things You Really Want to Do

a post by Margarita Tartakovsky for the World of Psychology blog



Between work, chores, and errands (like laundry, grocery shopping, and sweeping the floors), many of us feel like we have very little time for the things we really want to do. We think we have very little time for attending a yoga class, going on a dinner date or two, relaxing on the couch, or taking on a creative project.

That is, by the time we’ve checked the necessities off our lists, we’re dragging ourselves to bed because it’s late. Way too late.

So, if we barely have enough time to do the things we really need to do, how the heck will we have time for the things we really want to do?

Below are eight tips to answer that very question.

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